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Baby on a Budget
by Dawn Lloyd
Many first time parents suffer from "sticker shock" when they begin
registering for baby gifts and purchasing the needed baby accessories.
It's natural to desire all of the latest gadgets and adorable clothes,
but it adds up quickly. As the mother of three small children, I've
found a few tricks that can make parenting easier on the wallet.
The Nursery - The purchase that I was most excited about with each
pregnancy was the crib set - it was also the most frivolous. Crib sets
easily run between $100 and $200! Although they may seem to put the
finishing touch on the nursery, you'll actually get very little use out
of them. The comforter is adorable and is the most expensive piece in
the set, but the day baby comes home, you'll put it up and probably
never use it again. Due to the risk of SIDS, it is not recommended for
baby to sleep with a comforter or other soft bedding. Mine is actually
hanging on the nursery wall as an over-priced decoration.
The crib skirt is also pretty, but not very practical. I had one for my
daughter's nursery and it only served to get caught in the crib each
time I lowered the rails. The only bedding necessary is a few crib
sheets and a bumper pad. You can pick these items up for less than $35
and put the other $65 - $165 to better use.
Carefully consider your crib purchase. Remember, on average, a baby will
spend less than two years in a crib. A popular choice is a convertible
crib that grows with your child. It begins as a basic crib, can be used
as a toddler bed, and ultimately transforms into a twin bed. A
convertible crib can be purchased for a few dollars more than a regular
crib, making it the most obvious cost effective solution.
One item you can do without is a changing table since it will serve no
useful purpose once he/she hits toddlerhood. You can purchase a special
pad that attaches to the top of a dresser and is far less expensive than
a traditional changing table. Another option is to simply change baby in
the crib by placing a washable changing pad under baby.
Baby Accessories - The first thing every expectant mother wants to do is
register for or purchase all of those make-my-life-with-baby-easier
items. Save your money! There are a few that I would label as initial
"must haves" such as a bassinet, swing, and car seat, but there are many
more that you can absolutely live without - namely diaper wipe warmers
and baby food organizers.
Many of these items will only be used for a few months, so consider
purchasing from friends, consignment sales, or yard sales. The only item
that should not be purchased used is a car seat. It is recommended that
car seats be replaced after any automobile crash, even a minor one. It
is impossible to tell by simply looking at the seat if it has been
damaged; therefore it is best to only use a brand new seat, or one that
you are positive has never been involved in a collision.
Clothing - Shop the consignment shops and sales. You'll find that your
baby outgrows an outfit before he/she has the chance to break it in. I
eagerly await the semi-annual children's gently-used clothing sales! I
take outgrown clothes to sell, and then shop for next season's wardrobe.
With a little luck, I usually manage to break even! Most of the clothes,
toys, and accessories are in excellent condition, at a fraction of the
cost of purchasing new.
I also graciously accept hand-me-downs from friends and relatives. I
have several newborn sleepers that have been passed back and forth
between my sister-in-law's and my children. They are now awaiting the
arrival of Baby #5! For those well-worn items that aren't quite "going
out in public" material, I save them for pajamas, messy art projects,
and just plain bumming around the house/rolling around in the mud
outfits.
Diapers - Purchasing diapers by the case can save you several dollars
per month. Usually the "supercenter or warehouse" stores have the best
prices. Be sure to sign up with your favorite diaper company for money
saving coupons. I receive coupons almost every week for $1.00 - $2.00
off per pack (which can also be used to purchase cases). Watch your
Sunday sales paper for specials -- If you're not particularly attached
to one brand, you can save money by purchasing whatever brand is on sale
each week.
Cheaper isn't necessarily better. I have found that most generic brands
are not as absorbent as the name brands, and they also tend to run
smaller. If you purchase diapers by the case, one size could mean 20
diapers less per case. You may actually be paying the same, or even
more, for the generic brand!
Consider cloth diapers. Cloth diapers mean more laundry, but if that
doesn't bother you, it can save you quite a bit of money in the long
run. There are many new accessories, such as leak-proof covers, which
are making cloth diapering popular again.
Breastfeed - Breastfeeding has obvious health advantages, as well as the
convenience of always having milk warmed and ready to go. However, the
financial advantages are often overlooked -- Breastmilk is absolutely
free. If you are planning to return to work or need to leave your baby
with a caregiver, an excellent quality breast pump can be purchased for
less than the price of a two-month supply of formula. Many mothers have
successfully pumped, allowing them to enjoy the benefits and
cost-effectiveness of breastfeeding, while enjoying the freedom of
bottle-feeding. Contact a local lactation consultant or La Leche League
for breastfeeding advice.
Formula - If you are unable to breastfeed, or choose not to, you will
find formula to be expensive. Join the baby clubs sponsored by the
formula companies. You will receive free samples as well as coupons for
up to $5.00 off.
It is also possible that you may qualify for WIC, a government
assistance program. With WIC, you will receive formula, milk, bread,
cheese, and cereal during your baby's first years. Contact your local
Department of Social Services to see if you qualify, based on your
income.
Baby Food - At 50 cents per jar on sale, it is much less expensive to
make your own baby food. Did you know it's rather simple to make
homemade baby food? It only requires a very good blender or food
processor, a steamer or boiling pot, ice cube trays, and a few minutes
of your time. Making your own baby food has the distinct advantage of
you controlling what goes into your baby's sensitive tummy. You
determine how much, if any, spices and sugar your baby gets.
Clip Coupons - Clipping coupons and sorting through them each week may
seem time consuming, but the savings can really make a difference. As
mentioned in other sections of this article, most name-brand diaper,
baby food and formula companies offer substantial coupons for joining
their mailing lists. Other sources of savings are grocery and drug store
baby clubs. I recently received a package of coupons from a local
grocery store, including free diapers, baby food, cotton swabs, and
apple juice. Combined with the other coupons I had clipped and taking
into consideration it was double coupon day, I knocked nearly $60 off
that grocery bill!
Yard Sales - You'll be amazed at the great deals you can find at yard
sales! Baby furniture, accessories, and even clothing can be purchased
for pocket change! Many parents simply want to clean out the basement or
attic and are willing to let these items, which are often in excellent
condition, go for a fraction of the cost.
Be conservative and use a little common sense. Keep in mind that in
twenty years, your baby will not remember whether you used name brand or
generic diapers or bought his/her clothes at a consignment sale. Try a
few of the above suggestions, and watch your savings add up!
About the author
Dawn Lloyd is owner/editor of
www.babyuniversity.com,
www.babyshopsonline.com and
www.businesswebspace.com, an affordable web development company. She
is also the mother to three active children which are her inspiration.
She and her family reside in North Carolina.
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